What's the deal with parents who take loads of pictures and video of their 1st child but have only a scant few pictures of their 2nd or 3rd child? The message to that 2nd or 3rd child is clear: I don't love you as much as my 1st child and frankly I just don't have time or care to preserve any memory of your childhood. Such people shouldn't have more than one child, better still, people with such attitudes shouldn't have any children...